This is such a great post by Ben, and something I immediately related to.
…that question is so powerful. It strips away all the shoulds. It removes all righteousness. It eliminates expectations.
Is what I’m doing working?
Keep going.
If not, change.
It’s that easy.
I need to get much better at asking myself this question, especially ahead of time whenever I feel something frustrating me. Life offers far too many battles these days to possibly win them all. Pick what’s important, and forget the rest.